My daughter asked me today “was I sad because I don’t have a best friend”.
Let’s me honest when you are nine best friends are a daily occurrence, they also change as often as your socks. But I do wonder how many of us go into adulthood with a bff.
Now I’m not after sympathy I know I do have many good friends. Yet I can see why my daughter was concerned.
Do I do girly chatty phone calls. NO.
Shopping trips NO.
Lunches. NO
Girly weekends. NO
I have spent the rest of the day thinking on this. I could blame a lot of things, raising children with special needs, working full-time with my husband.
These are just excuses though no real reason.
Maybe I am just isolated by choice from the world of BFF’s.
As the day has worn on I’ve realised that I do need to work harder on friendships. I actually would like a best friend(now that reads sad right!).
So guys how do I go about it? BFF applications on request. Maybe not.
I think I need to look closer at the invites I receive. The texts I forget to reply to.
I do hope It’s not to late for me.
*sends CV*
😉
It absolutely doesn’t read sad. It reads hopeful! Feeling the need is the first step towards reaching out to grasp what it is you hope you want. Go for it!
Tia
Thanks Tia, that means a lot xx
Sent from my iPhone
No, no, it’s never too late. I would take you up, but I live 67 miles away. God bless, and I hope you find your mum’s dog. How devastating. I pray you will.
Anita
Whats 67 miles away between friends, seriously thank you for your kind words xx