My daughter asked me today “was I sad because I don’t have a best friend”.
Let’s me honest when you are nine best friends are a daily occurrence, they also change as often as your socks. But I do wonder how many of us go into adulthood with a bff.
Now I’m not after sympathy I know I do have many good friends. Yet I can see why my daughter was concerned.
Do I do girly chatty phone calls. NO.
Shopping trips NO.
Girly weekends. NO
I have spent the rest of the day thinking on this. I could blame a lot of things, raising children with special needs, working full-time with my husband.
These are just excuses though no real reason.
Maybe I am just isolated by choice from the world of BFF’s.
As the day has worn on I’ve realised that I do need to work harder on friendships. I actually would like a best friend(now that reads sad right!).
So guys how do I go about it? BFF applications on request. Maybe not.
I think I need to look closer at the invites I receive. The texts I forget to reply to.
I do hope It’s not to late for me.